I am sorry to write to you with a problem, but I trust you and know your will give me an honest answer straight from
your heart. So here goes.
I got myself into a huge dilemma which isn't right. My boss is pressuring me into having sex with him and he inappropriately
talks and touches me at work. I suspect my coworkers think we are having an affair since I don't rebuff his inappropriate
actions. The problem is if I wanted to complain to his boss he would bring up our history, and my boss's boss's wife works
with my husband's ex-wife's sister, so after my boss's boss learns of my sexual history it would work its way back to my
You see, I first had an encounter with my boss 12 years ago in college. You could say I was the campus slut. My
boyfriend at the time was the brother of my boss's roommate's brother's roommate at a neighboring college. One night those
4 (my boyfriend, his roommate, his roommate's brother, and his brother) decide to make a porn video of all 5 of us having sex.
Long story short, my boss comes home early and we make it a six-some.
The second encounter I had with my boss was 3 years after that and is ironically how I got my current job. I was a
stripper and was doing a party for my boss's second cousin's best friend's neighbor's bachelor party. After the show I
offered $20 blow jobs and my boss was a three time customer that night. The last time I performed for him he offered me an
office job. I told him up front that I would accept as long as no sex was expected, he agreed it would be business only at work.
This harassment has been going on since I started 7 years ago and is getting worse. I love my job, and my husband but I
can't take this abuse any more and need a way out that doesn't involve sex with my boss or my husband finding out about my
Thanks for your time,
Jane S Clossur